{"id":1953,"date":"2024-05-11T09:34:31","date_gmt":"2024-05-11T13:34:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.unliterate.net\/?p=1953"},"modified":"2024-05-11T09:36:11","modified_gmt":"2024-05-11T13:36:11","slug":"dad-feels-grief-loss-regret","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.unliterate.net\/index.php\/2024\/05\/11\/dad-feels-grief-loss-regret\/","title":{"rendered":"Dad Feels: Grief, Loss, Regret"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Our new Constitution is now established, and has an appearance that promises permanency; but in this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.<\/p>\n<cite>Benjamin Franklin, in a letter to Jean-Baptiste Le Roy, 1789<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>People often wish that they could have done things differently following the death of a loved one; this can make 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